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Nice Isn't Enough
  posted by Ren, 1/19/2011
Nice guys finish last. That's the saying, right? Sure, it's just a phrase and maybe it isn't as accurate as some people might have you believe; however, I've got to believe that there's some truth to it. I mean, what would be the alternative? Nice guys are trying to guilt more women into going out with them even though they already have women lining up? That wouldn't be very nice. Also, from my experience, I've seen nice guys who finish last, or to be more accurate, don't seem to finish at all. So it does seem like there is some truth to this statement. So why? Why would a woman choose the non-nice guys? The answer isn't as strange as you may believe.
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Open Avenues
  posted by Ren, 7/12/2010
Most people want to find "the one". They want to find that one other person who they could happily spend the rest of their life with. And while I do sometimes question this idea of "the one", that's not what this article is about. Instead, I want to offer a little advice on how to find that person. Whether you look in bars, your school, your work, a gym, online dating, or some form of social club, there's a really good chance you're missing out on some of your best opportunities.
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Following Your Feelings
  posted by Ren, 5/31/2010
It's so common to hear people say, "You've got to follow your feelings." They give you this advice for relationships, school, work, and so many other areas of our lives. It seems like most of those people are trying to give good advice by repeating what they've heard, but is it truly good advice? Have they taken the time to really process what it means or think about the logical consequences of always following your feelings? Aren't there times when following your feelings won't give you what's best for you or what you truly want?
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